You left the front door open again and did you bring them eggs?
She's standing at the stove with her back to me, left hand resting on her hip, right hand stirring slow a big pot of something that smells like pork and molasses and a bit of clove. Her carmel skin glows softly in the afternoon sun, a sun that stands out against the brilliant Carolina blue sky on a cold day in March. She's opened the false balcony to let the breeze in, and when she first spoke it was because she sensed me in the doorframe, and I had interrupted her low hum of Precious Lord, Take my Hand..
She doesn't look up from the pot but keeps on stirring, lifting her left hand off her hip, jerking her thumb toward the table, upon which is a large bowl, some flour, a yeast starter, eggs, heated milk and butter, and a larger wooden spoon. Don't just stand there, child. Rolls need making. Get to it.
My arms are folded. A burden on my right shoulder weighs it down. "You have a key, you know. I made you one. You didn't need to see if the door was open."
She turns, halfway, looking at me at a slant. True, but we both know that you've been leaving that door open a lot lately, so there's not much point of that key if just anybody can walk in here.
"It looks like Anybody did."
She laughs. Don't forget who gave you that wit, child, and don't forget who teaches you how to use it. I've already had to shoo away that old devil crouching at your door. Now, rolls. Get to it!
I cross over to the table, unshoulder the burden I have carried with me, a tangle of heartaches, words, shames, grief, worries, anger and pain I push it with my foot against the wall, free the space around me to move. I stand before the table for a few minutes, motionless.
Temper the eggs with milk and butter, then add the yeast.
I look up at her. She's not looking at me, but down at the pot that she keeps stirring, slow, beginning to hum again. Rock of ages cleft for me, left me hide myself in thee.
I don't know how I forgot that." I mumble, whisking the eggs fast as I slowly add the milk and butter.
You've not been baking for a time now. She keeps stirring, keeps her eyes from me. Sounds like you've forgotten a bit. Been spending all your time doing instead of becoming.
I keep trying to be this person of grace and this person of conviction and you keep not talking to me---"
Well, I'm talking now, so you may want to spend time actually doing some listening---
I am thinking of just not forgiving the whole thing, of just giving up, of just not trying to make it work anymore.
She stops stirring. She slowly pulls the spoon up from the pot, bangs it twice on the lid, rests it on the lip, and turns to face me. Now, why in Heaven are you thinking of doing that?
"Something about how I keep forgetting. If I belonged somewhere, then maybe I wouldn't forget as much." I reach for the salt, the sugar, and the yeast starter and begin to whisk them in.
Looks like just bothering to talk to Me has you remembering already. So, why are you really thinking about it? You'll do anything but settle in Me.
I pause for a moment, nibble my lower lip. "I want to fit somewhere. I'm tired of having to defend my disjointed spirituality to everyone, I'm tired---"
You're tired? She snorts. Honey child, do you know what it's like to have your own tell you that they're tired of talkin' about all the right they're doing when they ain't spending a lot of time doing right? When I came to you that Ash Wednesday, did I ask you to settle down?
"No."
Did I ask you to defend your path to anyone?
"No."
Then why do you feel so burdened with always doing my job for Me? Why do you feel everybody you meet has to know exactly what you believe? Why do you think it's your job to be My Spirit? Were you there when I asked Job, 'Were you there?'
"No."
No.
She turns, picking the spoon back up and starting to stir, slow, once more. You'll do anything but actually settle down in Me.
I'm about to object, but she's raised her left hand. She's humming again, deep and low, and she's not listening to me right now. She wants me to listen to her.
I start to add the flour, a cup at a time, stirring firm with the wooden spoon until it seems too much to keep on with. "Why can't I stir the pot? Why do I have to knead the bread?"
I let you stir the pot this summer, if you'll remember, but you kept forgetting to come back to it. You let the bottom burn one too many times. So it's back to bread for now. You need to work those hands into some dough. You need to feel it again.
I close my eyes. I don't know if it's frustration anymore, if it's annoyance or a graceless heart. I just know that it's a ball of tensioned resistance.
The first few minutes are awkward and disjointed. I am pushing dough across a table, worried more about it than I am the tangling, but there is a moment when I feel something give way, and she stops humming There is a Fountain and begins Rock of Ages and I find the dough in my hands beginning to turn elastic, to slowly feel like the loosening tightness in my heart, the uncoiling and unraveling of worry and doubt and anger over things I don't even understand.
That's it, child, that's it. Keep going. Slow. Purposeful.
"Our Father, who art in Heaven ..." it comes back in a whisper, in the quiver of fingertips and purposed focus. It comes back, the way of seeing, the way ahead.
There are two ways through life, the way of nature and the way of grace. She lifts the spoon out of the pot, tastes the broth and lets out a low, deep sigh of pleasure. Oh, child, I do make all things beautiful in their time. She turns then, looks me square and places her hands back on her hips. We going to talk about it?
When did I begin crying? Perhaps somewhere around asking to not be led into temptation. I try to form words but she shushes me, makes the difference up between us, comes to my side and wipes away my tears. Now listen here, Kahtleen, listen here: did you do wrong?
"Yes."
Did you ask My forgiveness?
"Yes."
Did you go ask forgiveness of those you wronged?
"Yes."
You readin your Bible?
"Yes."
You sayin your prayers?
"Now."
Then, mercy, child, mercy! I do not condemn you. You leave that burden right there at My feet and you take a song away. She kicks at the bag against the wall softly with her foot. This is My way, sweet child, walk in it! I did not ask you to go behind or before or to either side, but in My midst. You're not ready to stir the pot again just yet, but you still remember how to bake. So bake. For right now, what I want from you, is to bake.
And she stands on her tip-toes and kisses my forehead. and then takes my burden by the handles and pulls it, effortlessly, over her shoulder. She lingers for a moment over the pot on the stove, turning the heat down just a bit to let it simmer. It smells like the true things. She smiles softly and then begins to head out the kitchen door.
"Wait!" I stop kneading. "Does the pot need stirring? Will it burn?"
Peace! I know what I'm doing. You keep kneading. The pot will take care of itself. You'll know when it's time to stir again.
And she's gone, through the doorway, or I think she is. Instead, she pops her head back in, all smiles and green-glass eyes, I'm going to lock your front door on my way out, by the way. Just thought I'd remind you. She winks.
Then she's gone. Her scent lingers in the kitchen and I realise her scent is the scent of that pot on the stove and so I knead and keep kneading, slowly beginning to sing, Amazing Grace how sweet the sound...
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